Pro Dignity, No Doubt

Expectations are the death of joy

Nicole Smith Season 2 Episode 1

Host Nicole Smith starts Season 2 of Pro Dignity, No Doubt with a new format focusing on personal reflections and actionable insights. Sharing her journey through infertility, raising a child with cerebral palsy, and navigating grief, Nicole challenges societal norms that equate happiness with the absence of pain. Through faith, advocacy, and reframing expectations, she highlights the power of embracing struggles as opportunities for growth, purpose, and enduring joy.


Key Points


  • Nicole emphasizes on using personal and cultural stories to explore themes like human value and their impact on daily life.
  • Reflection on foundational truths about human worth, grounded in faith but accessible to all listeners.
  • Nicole introduces the central theme of how unmet expectations can rob joy and how to navigate this challenge.
  • Nicole explains Western culture’s obsession with avoiding pain and the resulting loss of growth, purpose, and joy.
  • Nicole's personal story of secondary infertility, miscarriages, and the emotional challenges tied to unmet expectations.
  • She tells about the realization that unmet expectations were actively robbing joy, leading to a shift in perspective.
  • Choosing to embrace moments of pain as opportunities for healing, growth, and discovering deeper purpose.
  • Advocacy for leaning into pain as a path to finding joy and fulfillment, with supporting reflections from scripture and personal experience.
  • Nicole explains the transformative role of motherhood in shaping the speaker’s identity as both a parent and an advocate.
  • Nicole explores the cultural narratives around privilege and the value of lives lived with struggle.
  • Reflection on the contrasting lives of the speaker’s children and the unexpected insights gained about privilege and purpose.





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